Can You Be More Selfish and Self Centered - A Girl I Would Rather Not Know
This little story all started several months ago when I went on a date with a guy I met here in Atlanta. Overall, he was a nice guy, but the date just did not go that well for a few reasons, but looking back I have no issue with this particular guy. He seems to be a nice guy and you just have to let things go and move on. :-)
But through him, I met this girl and she seemed to be very nice as well...we actually hit it off and spent a good amount of time talking. She gave me her telephone number and we decided we would text or call to keep in touch and get together for drinks.
Well about a week later or so I texted her to say hi and see how she was doing. I did not realize it b/c it slipped my mind, but I never heard from her. So after a few more weeks, I texted her again just to say "hi cutie, how are you?" Again I never heard from her...hmmmmm
So I waited a few more weeks and life went along and I decided to text her again. And yet again I did not hear from her. So at this time, I decided to move on and realized that she did not want to be friends and did not want to hang out.
Now I am sure you might be wondering, why didn't I call her? Well, when I met her the first night, she told me that she was a huge text messaging person...she said that was actually easier for her than telephone calls....so there you go.
So, imagine my surprise when yesterday I receive a text message from a telephone number that I do not recognize. This means that it is either a stranger or someone who I deleted from my cell phone. Well in this case, it was the latter.
The text message came from the girl who had decided not to return any of my previous text messages. And what was the subject of her text message you might ask???? It was to announce that she was having a birthday party and was wanting to invite everyone to come. It was obviously a group message sent out on her phone. Which is frustrating because that means she had my number and decided to never respond to me. And she decided to only text me when it was ALL about her...her birthday...her night...her plans....her schedule.
Well, since it is her birthday I have two words to say to her as I won't be going to the party.
But through him, I met this girl and she seemed to be very nice as well...we actually hit it off and spent a good amount of time talking. She gave me her telephone number and we decided we would text or call to keep in touch and get together for drinks.
Well about a week later or so I texted her to say hi and see how she was doing. I did not realize it b/c it slipped my mind, but I never heard from her. So after a few more weeks, I texted her again just to say "hi cutie, how are you?" Again I never heard from her...hmmmmm
So I waited a few more weeks and life went along and I decided to text her again. And yet again I did not hear from her. So at this time, I decided to move on and realized that she did not want to be friends and did not want to hang out.
Now I am sure you might be wondering, why didn't I call her? Well, when I met her the first night, she told me that she was a huge text messaging person...she said that was actually easier for her than telephone calls....so there you go.
So, imagine my surprise when yesterday I receive a text message from a telephone number that I do not recognize. This means that it is either a stranger or someone who I deleted from my cell phone. Well in this case, it was the latter.
The text message came from the girl who had decided not to return any of my previous text messages. And what was the subject of her text message you might ask???? It was to announce that she was having a birthday party and was wanting to invite everyone to come. It was obviously a group message sent out on her phone. Which is frustrating because that means she had my number and decided to never respond to me. And she decided to only text me when it was ALL about her...her birthday...her night...her plans....her schedule.
Well, since it is her birthday I have two words to say to her as I won't be going to the party.
