My So Called Life - The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

Embrace life -- both the sweet days and the bitter...embrace the joy and the sadness...the successes and the defeats -- for all of these things, both good and bad, have made you who you are.

Saturday, July 09, 2005

Conversationally Dominant? - The Opposite of Shy Guy

So a few posts back I discussed the difficulty of meeting someone who has nothing to add to the conversation.

Well I have recently experienced a new species in the animal kingdom. He has been around for a while, but it is has been a long time since I had interaction with him.

I believe the subspecies category is I-am-going-talk-the-whole-time-about-myself-because-I-am-that-great-and-I-know-you-only-want-hear-about-me-and-you-dont-want-me-to-ask-you-any-questions-to-get-to-know-you-saurus.

I know - that is mouth full - i am suprised Encyclopedia Brittanica actually had a page on this animal.

I mean damn - come on - no matter how great you are, how exciting you think you might be, every now and then lets all learn to shut up for just a little bit and let the other person talk. I mean how are you going to get to know the other person if ya never let them speak.

Oh..and the afore-mentioned member of the animal kingdom...after he was done talking he was like...

Him: "Ok..your turn."

I respond: "What?"....

He says "Tell me about you."

I respond, "So it appears we are having two monologues instead of a dialogue I see."

Ugh - where are the people who know how to have an engaging conversation without dominating, without monopolizing, and without only talking about themselves....


So...anyway back to me and my needs..... :-)


  • At 8:02 PM, Blogger Matthew said…

    Addendum to this post ---

    So the guys calls me today at my home # which I now have hooked up b/c of my cell phone issues.

    He calls and says "Hey."

    Im like, "Hey???"

    He says, "Its M***"

    I say, "Hi how are you?"

    He says, "Nothing...u?"

    I say, "Not much..."

    And then it ENDS!!!!! We sit there in silence. No real conversation. I had nothing to talk about. Hence why I did not pick up the phone and call him.

    So he calls me and just says hi and that is it.

    So it appears we have a bi polar conversationalist here. He either monopolizes the call or has nothing to say at all...

    Oh and to top it off..


    ugh - gay men....will they ever learn?

  • At 9:22 PM, Blogger Jim said…

    I think you have as 'interesting' a dating portfolio as I do. I say we hook up your bipolar conversationalist with my coke head :)

    Heavy monologers are not my taste either.

  • At 9:44 PM, Blogger Matthew said…

    Exactly Jim - I think it is a match made in heaven....

  • At 8:28 AM, Blogger hbjock said…

    Wow.... ummmm... geez... you see, you need to just stop playing around and come here so we can date already ;). Great conversational skills are essential to keeping any interest alive =)

  • At 4:25 PM, Blogger Atlanta Single Man said…

    BFL Jock - already moving on eh? LOL just kidding~! This is an interesting blog! I enjoy reading it!

  • At 10:12 AM, Blogger Schlitz25 said…

    Yeah i am verbal person, so i have to watch this alot.

    BUT Im STEAMED that after 8 1/2 years of friendship this trick has your home number and i it me immediately OR i will be forced to write something nasty about you on the blog.

    Kind Regards,


    (j/k but seriously email it to me.)

  • At 11:05 AM, Blogger Matthew said…

    Well Mr. Samuel -

    As you know I have DSL. I have a land line that I use for DSL but I have never used it before. So even though I had it, it did not enter my mind to actually use b/c i always had my cell #.

    Well since my cell # went down this last week, it dawned on me to use my home #. So I have had my home # up and running for approx

    So dont get your skin tight white leather pants in an uproar :-)

    I will email it to you today!!!!

    Love ya,


  • At 8:49 AM, Blogger Schlitz25 said…

    Thanks for the email.

    Btw- i dont have "skin tight white leather pants..." but Ill be sure to look for some this weekend while vintage shopping for the next "uproar" sure to ensue.

    Kind Regards,



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