Confidence - The Ultimate Sexual Quality?

So i was talking to this guy online tonight who I have seen out at the clubs for years. We even ran in the same circle for a while a few years back. Well tonight he tells me the following:

Him Typing : " i wanted to point out that you had a certain bit of confidence about you when i saw you on saturday. I've met you before and didn't notice it. I really liked it..."

For all of our weight lifting, our running, our focus on clothes, etc....could it be that simply having confidence goes even further.....

What do you guys think?

What matters more? Physical or Confidence

And which is more attractive to you?